Serious 1st question of the day.
What's appropriate on how to let a guy go?
A) Do I delete his contact?
B) Do I never talk to any mutual friends again?
C) Do I switch careers to acomplish B?
D) Find a re-bound and hopes that makes me forget about him
Obviously a person is not making me do C.
I just had a great summer before a festival not thinking about (let's call him X) Mr. X till we ended up working the same festival and were even parked by each other multiple times.
I wish people can say what they feel instead of being afraid of hurting people's "feelings" have the guts to say this and this is why I stopped talking or in this case being friends AND flirting with you.
I wish I could have just went up and asked you what happened to us being friends or more than friends?
I'm now finally getting over this guy, but it puzzled me on what exactly happened. Closure my friends, that's what I wanted. I realized though that I don't need closure for something that was maybe never there.
If something is meant to happen it will find a way; my new motto. (Let's see how long I can stick with this one!)
Second question: How do I let go of a friend that you've known your entire life?
You know the relationship is toxic now, but you love that person and don't know what your life is without them.
In the end you're enduring the pain of the toxicity and at the same time love this person enough to put up with all of these words bringing you down.
Friends I am in a mid-life crisis at age twenty and three quarters.